The holidays are one of the most popular times for engagements. If you are one of the many doing so, congratulations! Now that you’ve said “yes,” it’s time for the fun to begin. There is no denying that the economy is uncertain at best. Many are still trying to recover from the events of the past several years. But it is your day and it’s one that you have dreamed of your entire life. You don’t have to sacrifice – maybe just consider other options. Is a destination wedding your answer to having all that you want without giving anything up?
Meeting In-Between
When we think about destination weddings, often we envision barefoot ceremonies on the beach, and those are amazing! However, if you are thinking more in terms of convenience than anything else, finding a mutual spot where everyone can easily travel might be the best way to go. When you have a destination wedding or ask a large number of people to come in for your nuptials, you tend to rack up a higher bill. If you find a “destination” that is equally close to the most important people, you will have everyone you want in attendance. Once more, everyone can find their own transportation and lodging. Sometimes destination weddings actually cut costs instead of increasing them!
Shorten the Guest List
One of the hardest things for many couples to do is to shorten a guest list. It’s amazing that as you begin to write down who to invite, just one name can lead to about ten other obligatory invitations. No one wants people to feel excluded! With a destination wedding, many of those who would expect to be on the list will not be shocked or offended that there are very few who will attend. In fact, many of those who are not invited will be happy that they don’t have to make all the plans that it can sometimes take to get out of town!
Make It More Intimate
Sure, who doesn’t want a big party to celebrate their wedding? Actually, many people! Although weddings are supposed to be for the bride and groom, they can often turn into anything but that. If you are looking to say “I do” without a huge crowd to watch, then a destination wedding can be way more intimate. Oce you return from your wedding, you can hold a small and casual party for a fraction of the cost.
Make the Wedding What You Want
A destination wedding by design means a personal touch on sharing your vows and it’s open to your interpretation. It really is YOUR day, which means that you should take the time to enjoy it, whatever that looks like for you. If you aren’t the bridal pre-party hair and makeup type, then don’t be. If you are looking to just have an exchange of vows on a hilltop, in your backyard, or in any other special spot where you want to begin your life together, a destination wedding is all about two people – you! You make the rules, or make no rules at all!
If You Do Choose A Destination Wedding…
If you do choose a destination wedding, then make sure that you hire a wedding caterer who can take it on the road. At the Deft Chef, we have everything you need to take your show on the road. Whether you have ten people in attendance or two hundred, we have the expertise, experience, and savvy to make sure that it goes off without a hitch and is exactly the way you want it. After all, it shouldn’t be any other way. Contact us today to discuss how we can plan the wedding of your dreams in 2023!